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Best Solo Date Ideas & Rituals #solodatechallenge

When was the last time you dedicated hours primping, preparing, and planning for a special day? I don’t mean getting ready for a date with your beau, or a girl’s night out, or a big meeting at work. When was the last time you got ready and got excited to spend quality time with yourself? Have you ever calculated how much time you dedicate to other people? We spend months preparing for a girls trip. We spend weeks preparing for a work presentation. We spend hours preparing for a date. So much of our time and energy is spent for...

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• Oshun
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Affirmative III: Oshunita

Affirmative I Playlist || Affirmative II Playlist || Affirmative III || All Playlists Oshun, the Yoruba Orisha of fresh water and sensuality, can also be seen as the "goddess" of self love. In celebration of the essence that essential to creation, this Oshunita playlist is a slow and sexy reminder of self love, self adoration, self appreciation, and self reflection. When completing a self love ritual, like our very popular Oshunita ritual, you can start include singing love songs to yourself in the mirror as a daily or regular continuation of this self love ritual. Learn more about the Oshunita ritual here.  Indulge in the...

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Confidence Playlist (Affirmative II: Wild Woman)

Affirmative I Playlist || Affirmative II Playlist || Affirmative III || All Playlists The Affirm: Wild playlist journeys through the recognition of the inner Wild Woman. I think all of us can use a healthy and permanent dose of Wildness after 2019. Get into the mix! LISTEN ON SPOTIFY LISTEN ON TIDAL       Clarity was the word for 2019. Wide eyed, finally; delusions clear. Focused (like Ashanti says on track 6 of the mix). And if growing pains are needed to finally focus vision to clearly see the world, you took each ache and blow with unwavering resilience. Not only that,...

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The Wild, Wild Woman

What does it mean to be a wild woman?  Lately, I have been reading Women Who Run With the Wolves, hungrily, with keen pacing. I’m savoring, and speeding through, and slowing down, and going back, and skipping forward all up and through this wonderful collection of analyzed myths that remind us of the innate power of the primal self. Written by Clarissa Pinkola Estes, Women Who Run With the Wolves explores the intricacies of innate instincts of the wild woman archetype. LISTEN: Wild Woman Playlist    What is a wild woman? I’m only half way through the book, but I already...

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Self-love Rituals to Make Everyday Valentine’s Day

The month of February, we will focus on defying and redefining love.

In the last post, I asked:

• What does creating a healthy relationship with yourself look like? 
• What does obsessing over you look like?
• What does loving yourself look like?

In this post, I want to discuss some self love ideas and rituals you can easily incorporate on a daily basis to fall more and more in love with yourself.

Before starting, I want to say that the best self love ritual you can do it one you create with your intuition. Even the mantras I include should be tweaked so they are specific to you and your needs.

For me, self love includes a lot of dancing (twerking is ancestral, we can discuss this one on one if necessary), singing, massages, sunlight, healthy eating, words of affirmation, among other things. While I will list some general rituals here that will be supportive for you, I recommend connecting with your higher self and creating your own self love rituals you can incorporate regularly.